Session this week.

i have a session this week, it is amazing to me, how the thought of an upcoming session can enter your mind in the most amazing ways. i know Mistress has some new toys and a semi new treat for me. It has been awhile since i sessioned with Her, and in a new location. i can not wait.

What not to do 2.

Ok, if it seems wrong it is. If when you walk in, it feels wrong, it is. If when you talk to Mistress she does not recall your emails or likes and dislikes. Your in trouble. This is professional domination, professional is the key word. Run.

Ok, i stayed once, cause Mistress looked awesome in her corset. i should not have. i did not session for 6 months afterwards, made and stopped 3 appointments before they started.

Looks are not everything. If it feels wrong, run, run, hide. Look for established Mistress's with backgrounds. That is the key.

How did i get here?

i am a red blooded all American male. Love sports, women, travel, food, beer, wine and women. Over my 30 odd years on this planet, i noticed something, the women i was attracted all had something in common, there were aggressive.

Aggressive, interesting word, maybe more comfortable in there skin at 18, self aware at 22, confident. Not bitchy, rude or mean, confident. This grew, soon i realized, i loved this women in leather and boots. As i tripped thru college and early corporate life i harbored a deep desire to meet women like this.

In 1997 i got my wish, sort of, a girlfriend like to use neck ties in our bedroom play. my first experience, was eye opening, more on this latter. i wanted more. i soon realized leather, boots, bondage and confident women existed. A strange sort of growth happened and has continued. This blog will track that growth, fun, disasters and maybe provide some insite.