How did i get here?

i am a red blooded all American male. Love sports, women, travel, food, beer, wine and women. Over my 30 odd years on this planet, i noticed something, the women i was attracted all had something in common, there were aggressive.

Aggressive, interesting word, maybe more comfortable in there skin at 18, self aware at 22, confident. Not bitchy, rude or mean, confident. This grew, soon i realized, i loved this women in leather and boots. As i tripped thru college and early corporate life i harbored a deep desire to meet women like this.

In 1997 i got my wish, sort of, a girlfriend like to use neck ties in our bedroom play. my first experience, was eye opening, more on this latter. i wanted more. i soon realized leather, boots, bondage and confident women existed. A strange sort of growth happened and has continued. This blog will track that growth, fun, disasters and maybe provide some insite.